How?

I have not had much time to post lately. I've been dealing with other things. Bad things from our past (my husband and I) have began to rear their ugly heads again. And the only thing people can so to help is 'but you married him knowing about everything he did'...Umm, YES because I love HIM not what he did to me. (Long story short, we met, but he kept looking for someone else, met another woman, moved in w her, never told me, and I had to find out from her 4 months later after she gained access to his facebook...) Turns out the first 4 months of our relationship were pretty much a lie, but I was in-love with him. And I have no idea what in the hell to do to get past this. Its been a year. And I still hurt over it. I have questions that he refuses to answer. I dont know what to do. Emotional roller-coaster right now. I think its time for some healing magick. I really do.
....Blessed Be from one hurt witch.....